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One of the most common questions during the wedding photography booking process is “have you shot at my venue before?” Often times, the answer might be no. If that is the case, don’t be discouraged! I personally like to visit every wedding venue before the wedding, just to get a lay of the land. Usually […]

Every wedding venue I’ve been to as an NYC Wedding Photographer

Ditching big wedding plans and opting to elope became more of a trend during early Covid days, and it has since evolved. It’s clearly here to stay. And what better place to elope than New York City? Picture this: a short, sweet Bethesda Terrace Central Park wedding ceremony, photos by the lake, and then going to for […]

Central Park Wedding at Bethesda Terrace

Nestled beneath the iconic Queensboro Bridge, Guastavino’s NYC is a stunning architectural marvel that has stood the test of time. This unique venue, renowned for its distinctive Catalan vaulted tile ceiling, has a rich history that adds to its allure. Today, it is one of the most sought-after venues for hosting events, particularly weddings. Let’s delve into […]

Guastavino’s Wedding New York City

Choosing your wedding photographer Choosing a wedding photographer is one of the most important steps in wedding planning, and I don’t just say that because, well, I’m a wedding photographer. I say that because it’s true, and I only speak truth here. With the tri-state area so densely populated, choosing a wedding photographer becomes a highly selective […]

How to Choose a Wedding Photographer

The Hudson Valley is home to a litany of historic and picturesque wedding venues, and there is something beautiful & unique about each one. This Wainwright House wedding kicked off the summer and a busy wedding season for 2024. For Allison and Greg, their wedding weekend began with an elegant waterfront rehearsal dinner and welcome party at the […]

Wainwright House Wedding

Picture this. It’s your wedding reception. It’s 9pm, and you’ve been on your feet quite a bit all day. You’re an hour into the reception, and the songs playing are on a playlist you made. You’re surrounded by family and friends, (maybe you’re a few cocktails in), and your song comes on. The song that […]

How to Make a Killer Wedding Reception Playlist

As you plan your wedding, one question that might cross your mind is, “Do photographers come to the rehearsal dinner?” The answer is totally subjective. It depends on various factors such as your personal preference, budget, and the significance you place on the rehearsal dinner itself. In this blog post, I will delve into the […]

Rehearsal Dinner Photographer: Should You Book One?

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